Today is the first time E Zen and I separated… after the one month confinement.. i have been taking care of E Zen for almost 7 days… day and night… i can feel that i’m tired… due to taking care of him over night… till last night… don’t know is actually E Zen didn’t get up and drink milk… or i was way too tired till didn’t hear E Zen cry… hopefully is actually the 1st case scenario… i was very worry for the whole day yesterday… cause i scared that E Zen didn’t have enough milk… so… finally i decided to bring E Zen over to nanny’s house for her to start taking care of him… i didn’t want to bring him over that fast… cause i wanted to breast feed him… hmm… but Brandon keep asking me to bring him over as soon as possible…
1. Brandon scared that i’m too tired over taking care of E Zen which i think still ok… until last night incident
2. Brandon said is better to let the nanny get use to it earlier…
so… in the end we bring him over… arr… really miss him a lot… wonder what is he doing now… did he get up at night to have milk milk? arr… really wish i can take care of him myself day and night… same thinking like i have when i bring Daphne over to nanny house last time… i wonder how many times do i need to have this kind of thinking… i know it won’t change the result.. but still i will keep have that thinking… see.. now i can’t fall asleep d… is almost 4AM in the morning… –_-" i guess i was scared by last night incident d… till i tell my body not to sleep at night.. so that i can take care of E Zen.. make sure he get enough milk… but… wake up Cherrie… E Zen is with the nanny d… –_-"
now what i hope is… hopefully i can still continue breastfeed… hopefully the milk won’t out of stock that fast…
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Take it easy dear..same like when u get married,i can’t sleep for whole year.!
im not sure if u’re luckier or im luckier.
i had my baby via c-section too.
during my 1mth confinement, i took care of the baby myself most of the time. becos my mom is doing the confinement for me. i didnt want to tire her out cooking and doing housework. i let her sleep at night. my husband will help after work.
after the confinement, i stayed home to take care of the baby myself for another 2 mths. my mom will come over in the day to help and go home in the evening (we stay nearby). wkend is her rest days.
it was tiring esp since i was also fully breastfeeding. my milk supply was low. even when baby did not wake up at night for milk, i still hv to wake up every few hrs to pump out the milk in order to stimulate the supply.
when baby is 3mths old, i went back to work. but i continued to breastfeed him totally until he’s 13mths old. then it was converted to partial breastfeeding (meaning he was on both breastmilk and formula milk) until 19mths old.
when i look back now, i wonder where did i get all the energy! i had to pump at least twice at work! but i believe it’s the power of mother love. ive never regretted spending so much time and effort seeing now me and my baby bond v well and the benefits he got from breastmilk.
so pls jia you and give ur best!
You are really lucky to have people help you out… And good job on breasfeeding I’m trying my best to feed my little prince as long as I can..
while u feel tt im lucky to hv pple to help me out, but actually i only hv my mom and my husband.
to me tts enough. the 2 person whom i trust most. alot of times i still depended on myself.
i read tt in ur prev posts tt u were to lie down on bed, or just sit and rest. i wished i could be like tt!
but in order not to tire my mom, i took care of my baby myself most of the time including bathing him and changing diapers and waking up at late night when baby cried.