Current Mood: Alarmed & Bored & Confused

This is the question or Difference that most of the mummy to be thinking… Nowadays most of the people will go for C-Sec even they are able to give birth naturally… Cause most of the mummy afraid of ‘pain’ that Natural Birth will give… Hmm…

What’s not good about c-sec?
One of the point I don’t like C-sec is.. I feel that c-sec will actually make me feel uncomfortable in terms of mental.. Cause for c-sec you already know the exact date and time that you will be deliver… So it will actually make me think how the whole process will be.. Etc. That’s what happen to me… And even the baby.. Yeah the baby get affect too hahaha. Cause I can feel that my baby keep moving inside very actively for the last two days before I giving birth… Mentally you will be affected.. That’s how I feel.. Maybe that’s why I wake up 2 hours earlier…

Medical Fees is another concern that make me keep think about it… The charges is simply higher than giving birth naturally… Normally giving birth naturally will be around RM 2k (staying in the hospital for 2 nights according to malacca hospital standard around Year 2009-2010) but as for c-sec the charges can easily go up to RM5,000 – RM6,000.

Another concern is… You have to fast before doing the c-sec… This is the problem I having now.. I feel super thirsty.. But u can’t even drink plain water… God.. That feeling… Really hard…

The other concern is… After C-sec there’s too many don’t (s) that the mummy can’t do… 
1. Some said you only able to eat and drinks after you fart -.- (to make sure you fart asap… Remember to bring along the minyak ‘Ru Yi’ to apply on the stomach…)

Besides that for those who goes for c-sec.. You will feel like wanna cough.. So.. Make sure you bring along Vicks… To apply it on your neck whenever you feel like coughing.. It works on me

While doing c-sec:
First you are allow to choose which type of anesthesis you want…
1. Full body – you will just sleep and they will use a machine to help you to breathe.. When you wake up the hold operation is done
2. Half body – you will be able to feel the doctor is pressing your stomach.. U get to hear what they say.. That means when baby came out you will be able to see him / her by urself

After that… They will prepare everything and ask if you can still move your leg and so on… Then they will start the operation… First you get to smell something burning.. Yeah.. That means they started ‘cut’ ur skin d.. 

Then you will get to feel that the doctor and nurse keep pressing you.. Blablabla.. Actually the assitant there will update you what are they doing…

Then you will be able to hear baby voice once he/she came out

Arr actually quite a lot of steps and procedure la… 

After the whole operation done.. You still won’t be able to feel anything.. Cause the med still there.. So you won’t be able to move your legs yet.. Till you back to your own room… Slowly.. U will be able to feel the pain.. Slowly.. Slowly… First will feel the contraction pain… Then the pain of the wound… Then contraction pain again.. On and off one after another… Seriously.. No joke..

At this point.. I keep thinking.. Why people choose to go for c-sec instead of natural birth? For natural birth.. After give birth.. U only feel the pain of your wound.. As for contraction pain you only feel that before giving birth.. Right after you give birth that’s it.. U will feel relieve…

After around 12hours.. Finally I feeling better.. But not sure is it cause they gave me the injection to get rid of the pain.. Or what… But one thing for sure.. That injection do help me fall asleep

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Didn’t know what to write anymore…

1. Notify few of my friend about my status…
2. Already pack all the things that is needed…
3. Wanted to watch some drama series but the TV is in pause mode cause Brandon is watching “Super Natural” at the moment. So I can’t watch anything
4. Not really in the mood to edit photos…
5. Wanted to post Daphne’s new photos but seems like not the correct timing…
6. Wanted to ask if friend free to have teppanyaki dinner with me… But she didn’t reply my sms yet… and i doubt i should really eat that or not… cause i just get well from sore throat not long ago
7. Wanted to bead more jewelry… but i’m out of beads… sigh
8. Wanted to sleep but i don’t feel sleepy…

are all these the sign of worry? or am i scared? actually quite a lot of friend asked me this question… but seriously… i myself didn’t know the answer… especially when Jen ask me that… guess how i answer her?? ahaha

"dunno ler… i didn’t have c-sec before… so i didnt know ler… everytime give birth also different experience.. OMG… haih.. scare also have to give birth one lar… so.. just let it be ba…"

i think… now the best thing for me to pass time is… watch drama… or maybe chit chat with a friend… or maybe just lie down and don’t do anything.. hmm…

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After a long break… Finally today I get to hug and play with daphne… Today we bring her back and take care of her hehe (yeah that means today I no work) realize that she know how to say ‘Jie Jie’ (sister) already… Besides that… Brandon try to hold her hand and let her walk… She did walk a few steps then back to crawling position…

Oh ya… Realize that her 5th teeth coming out d… Her 4th teeth still haven’t come out yet still under process hahaha wonder the 4th one will come out first or the 5th one hehehe…

After the Roseola can feel that Daphne slim down a lot… Wonder how heavy is she now… Still remember that the 2nd day she had fever she was 9kg only… Hmm… Besides that I still get to see those red dots on her body.. Just that is not very obvious…

Just now after feeding Daphne.. As usual I shoe her some flash card… When I show her till Duck.. Suddenly she follow me and say the word Duck omg… I tot I heard wrongly so I repeat a few times.. And she did the same… Daphne good job.. Keep it up k…

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Today is the day we bring Daphne swim swim at KL… hehehe… before this Daphne did try swim before.. but not with proper swim suit… just went to Uncle Vincent’s house for a short swim swim session.. hehehe.. and that time we didn’t accompany her to swim… Uncle Vincent did… cause we didn’t bring along any cloths.. hahaha… so this time consider the first time Brandon and I accompany her swim…

before we go for the real swimming pool.. we let Daphne try out her “float” hahaha.. so cute…

ok.. let’s start swim in the kid’s pool… hehehe… where am i? i’m the photographer…

seems like Daphne like swim swim…

hehe.. she seem really enjoy… kekeke…

here you go.. Brandon and dear Daphne… having fun in the swimming pool…

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Current Mood: Cool & Happy & Playful

So fast.. is already Week 28… now is the last trimester d… Now… baby in there kick more and more strong.. and more and more frequent.. for this time a bit different… cause I didn’t go Government Hospital for check up… Although Brandon’s relative did ask us to go for check up at Government lar.. but after giving birth for Daphne… we find that go Government check up is a bit useless for us… actually there’s a few reasons why last time we go for check up at Government Hospital

1. If any serious case happen which the private hospital won’t want to take you during give birth, they will actually ask you go Government Hospital… and Government Hospital will only take your case if you did regular check up at the Government Hospital before (which you will have the RED book)

2. you will get FREE injection service at Government Hospital which you can save up a lot (as for Daphne we didn’t bring her to Government Hospital for the injection… cause Government Hospital didn’t have all the injection only those they think is necessary)

3. after give birth, government hospital will actually ask their nurse to visit your house to help check up for the baby and mummy… (this is the part which i like…)

hmm… currently my weight is around 56kg… –_-“ faint… fatty fat fat… i can really eat this time… compare to last time when i have Daphne… this time.. after i ate a bowl of wan ton mee… i can still order 5 pcs chee cheong fun and finish them all –_-“ faint.. isn’t that scary… haha.. and every time i go check up sure doctor said i gain weight.. and not just 1kg.. sometimes will gain till 2kg… i really wonder… how fat will i be when i deliver the 2nd baby… hmm… i think after this must really keep fit d… hahaha

Below are the information i get from Babycenter

How your baby’s growing:
By this week, your baby weighs two and a quarter pounds (like a Chinese cabbage) and measures 14.8 inches from the top of her head to her heels. She can blink her eyes, which now sport lashes. With her eyesight developing, she may be able to see the light that filters in through your womb. She’s also developing billions of neurons in her brain and adding more body fat in preparation for life in the outside world.

How your life’s changing:
You’re in the home stretch! The third and final trimester starts this week. If you’re like most women, you’ll gain about 11 pounds this trimester.

At this point, you’ll likely visit your doctor or midwifeevery two weeks. Then, at 36 weeks, you’ll switch to weekly visits. Depending on your risk factors, your practitioner may recommend repeating blood tests for HIV and syphilis now, as well as doing cultures for chlamydia and gonorrhea, to be certain of your status before delivery. Also, if your glucose screening test result was high and you haven’t yet had follow-up testing, you’ll soon be given the 3-hour glucose tolerance test. And if the blood work done at your first prenatal visit showed that you’reRh negative, you’ll get an injection of Rh immunoglobulin to prevent your body from developing antibodies that could attack your baby’s blood. (If your baby is Rh positive, you’ll receive another shot of Rh immunoglobulin after you give birth.)

Around this time, some women feel an unpleasant “creepy-crawly” sensation in their lower legs and an irresistible urge to move them while trying to relax or sleep. If this sensation is at least temporarily relieved when you move, you may have what’s known as restless legs syndrome (RLS). No one knows for sure what causes RLS, but it’s relatively common among expectant mothers. Try stretching or massaging your legs, and cut down on caffeine, which can make the symptoms worse. Ask your caregiver if you should try iron supplements, which can sometimes relieve RLS.

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check this video out… Brandon and I have been training Daphne doing the “Gong Xi Gong Xi” pose.. hahahaha

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