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Little Prince EZen day 87 and Little Princess Daphne Day 486

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Ezen seems didn’t like to direct latch on anymore.. Which make me really worry. Cause if he don’t direct latch on the milk production will get less.. Although e zen consider had breasmilk longer than Daphne but still if can have it longer will be better…

In the afternoon.. I tried to fried some toufu for Daphne as her lunch.. I learn the recipe tru baby center website.. Is very easy actually.. Just cut the toufu into few blocks.. Fried them with butter.. Wait till it turn yellow then add some of the soy sauce then can d… I tried some of it.. Taste not bad… Hehehe… Actually I quite enjoy cooking for the kids to eat… Just hope that they will like it.. Although Daphe can’t seems to finish the whole toufu.. But at least she did ate quite a few blocks of them…

Ok let’s get back to EZen case.. In the afternoon I tries again… By switching the pacifier and direct latch on… It did helps a bit.. At least he able to accept a bit.. Far better than yesterday and this morning.. Phew.. Have to really work hard and really needs lots of support.. I still remember this morning when EZen refuse to drink milk.. I actually called Brandon for help… And can see from his face that he can’t do anything.. He tried to google it online but can’t seem to find any useful information… Bran.. Thanks for it help an support.. Ur support means a lot to me…

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May 29, 2010 @ 5:22 pm

Little Prince E Zen Day 77

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This is the second time I draft this post.. Hopefully i can upload it successfully without any problems..

OMG.. Faint another call came in while I typing this.. So some of the words gone again..

Ok.. Let me retype again… This is the third time I write this d..

We realize that E Zen seems to be afraid to be in the dark… He keep crying while we on the way to KL at night.. As well as after dinner and shopping.. The crying only happen when is in the car and is at night… Wonder if he really scare of dark.. Or he’s trying to tell me something..

Besides that, on the way back to KL.. I ds feed E Zen with direct latch on.. But seems like he get use to bottle feed d… But I still keep trying… Then Brandon keep encourage me to give E Zen direct latch on and he said that I have a week to train E Zen… But what I worry was he won’t want to drink…

Slowly… I keep direct feed him… Luckily he accepted the way I feed him in the end… And glad that I didn’t give up half way.. Really wish to feed him as long as I can.. Hope that he can get whatever he needs too…

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May 19, 2010 @ 5:10 pm

TV-Watching Guidelines for your Toddlers

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Below is one of the article i read from the email i received from BabyCenter.com

The best way to handle how much television and video your toddler watches is to think of them as refined sugar: You want your child to enjoy this seductive stuff without consuming too much. So you’ll need to stay on top of the time your toddler spends in front of the television. The average American child watches three to four hours a day, despite recommendations from the American Academy of Pediatrics that children should watch no more than an hour or two a day, and that children under 2 should watch no television at all.
Starting out tough from day one is the key to keeping viewing time under control. It’s a lot easier to relax your standards later than it is to wean an 18-month-old from a three-times-a-day Dora or Blue’s Clues habit.
Here are tips on how to use television as a learning tool.

Limit the amount of TV your toddler watches

Since your child is under age 2, it’s best to keep TV-watching to a bare minimum. If you choose to allow some television, break it up into 15-minute increments. Much more than that, and your toddler’s brain can shift to autopilot.
Once your child hits 2, limit his total viewing time to an hour a day — even that amount is a lot for an active toddler. You should also keep the television out of your child’s bedroom and turned off during meal times.

Watch programs, not television

Rather than sitting down to watch whatever happens to be on, carefully select the program your toddler’s going to watch, and turn off the set when that program is over. Record programs ahead of time, if possible, so your child can watch what you want, when you want.
A two-minute warning that a show (or the segment of it that you’re letting your toddler watch) is about to end will help him transition to the next activity.

Choose calm, quiet programs

Slower-paced viewing gives your toddler time to think about what he’s watching and absorb the information. Lots of action and quickly changing images will only confuse him or make his eyes glaze over.
Some research suggests that children who watch violence on TV are more likely to display aggressive behavior. Stay away from scary shows, too. Instead, choose simple programs that emphasize interactivity. The best shows are those that inspire your child to makes sounds, say words, sing, and dance.
For specific program suggestions, talk to other parents in our community aboutTV for kids.

Watch with your toddler

A recent study looked at three groups: children with unlimited access to television, children with moderate access to television who watched without parents, and children with moderate access to television who watched with a parent.
The last group scored significantly higher academically than the other groups. Just being there says to your child, "What you do is important to me."
Of course, many of us have moments when we resort to using television or a video as a babysitter, but when you leave your child alone with the TV for a long time, you send a signal that you don’t care what he watches. If you can, bring a basket of laundry to sort or some other task into the room so you can work and watch. Then it becomes an activity the two of you can enjoy together.

Help your toddler watch with a critical eye

Explain what’s going on in the show, and encourage your child to ask questions and relate what’s happening in the show to his own life. If you’ve recorded the show or are watching a video or DVD, press the pause button as often as you need to so that you have ample time to discuss what’s going on.
If you’re watching a recorded TV show, you’ll probably want to fast-forward through the commercials. If you’re stuck watching commercials, help your toddler understand the difference between those and the show itself.

Extend the show’s content with activities or books

If you and your toddler have just finished watching a Sesame Street segment that introduces a number, talk about it later and find other examples to show him. When you’re setting the table, for example, you might say, "Hey, today’s number was three, and there are three places to set!" Then read and discuss a book that explores numbers concepts.
These recommendations were developed with the help of Kathleen Acord, project supervisor for KQED television’s "Ready to Learn," a national government-sponsored program that educates parents and childcare providers about how to use television as a learning tool.

So.. now you have an idea on what and how long you should let your toddler to watch TV? guess what… i think is kind of hard for me to follow this now… ever since… when arr… i can’t remember… i think when Daphne few months old already started watch Barney her nanny house… is understandable that most of the nanny will choose to let the toddler to watch tv program while taking care of them… cause will be easier for them to take care… so what i did is choose the correct or i should say better program for Daphne to watch… Besides Barney and Friends, Daphne did watch the cartoon name “Nody” as well… that animation is not bad… besides some good storyline animation they did teach some exercises too… and there’s when Daphne start her first few steps while watching it ^^ and she always like to dance together with the video… ^^ is cute… you will know what i mean when you see your own toddler do the same thing…

Guess what.. last night i just watched Sesame Street English with Daphne… that’s the program that i don’t really like while i’m a kid… I’m not sure why i don’t like it.. but what i remember is… i can learn quite a lot of things from there…. so Brandon and I choose that DVD for Daphne recently ^^… ok… what’s Daphne first impression when she see Tingo and other character in Sesame street? Surprisingly.. Tingo catches her attention… she will keep look at him and Niki when they are having the conversation… when other character came out… some will actually make her cry… not really cry lar.. just that she will show on her face that she don’t like that character… until a limit where she will take the remote control and try to off it or something… hahaha.. most of the time she will accidentally press on the “forward” button… i will say that’s purely a coincident…


This is the colorful Tingo i talk about


Still remember all these character that i saw last time when i was young.. but seriously i can’t remember their name

after watching the Sesame Street English with Daphne yesterday… i feel that the program is not bad… but i think should find a better one… hmm.. how to say… i feel that there’s some part of Sesame Street is not really good… like.. there’s a part where two of the bugs trying to argue where to put the table… until one of the bug actually make the other fall down –_-“ i was like… err.. Daphne you better don’t learn this… although the bug did say sorry to the other bug after that.. but still i think this is kind of wrong…

I think the next program i will buy for Daphne to watch will be the one i saw at Genting Speedy (of course i won’t go all the way to Genting to buy lar.. i’m sure other speedy outlet will have that kind of learning program as well). The one i saw at Speedy is kind of cool… they actually have a graph at the back of the DVD and telling us… the milestone of the baby.. what they should learn for each age… for example… for toddle between 1 year old to 2 years old should learn the number from 1-20, colors, shapes, and animals as well… as for toddler that is more than 2 years old they can start learning FRENCH.. (OMG… FRENCH… i don’t even know how to say the number in FRENCH) but i think will be cool if Daphne can learn that… then i can learn together with her as well.. hahaha.. ya.. time to get back to school

so i think i will get that DVD and watch together with Daphne… and will try applying those words that she learn from the DVD while she’s not watching… hope that will help… besides that.. maybe i will try look for the “High Five” program as well.. cause i heard from my friend that that program is not bad as well.. hmm… have you watched it before? how was it? do you have any other tv program to recommend as well?


Barney and Friends… this is the tv program that Daphne watched most… can feel that she kind of like it.. some times she even dance together with the tv program… but.. weird thing is… when she see the Barney toy that we bought… she don’t dare to touch it… or i should say she will keep a distance with him… (maybe she scare that Barney will become big like how he did in the tv show.. hehe)


this is the High Five program that my friend told me that is good.. hmmm

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April 21, 2010 @ 12:00 pm

Busy Busy Day

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Been really busy lately… phew.. rarely have time to blog, take photos, make jewelry… can’t really think of anything… so don’t talk about creativity… look back my blog skin… it has been years since i last update my blog layout… still remember last time i free till can always change my blog design… i think i change it every month –_-" but now.. not anymore… i don’t have time for all this kind of things anymore –_-"

Been really busy with two little one… the little princess Daphne and the little prince E Zen… how are they doing? hmm… naughty…

E Zen Day 47
We realized that he can turn around d… how to say.. hmm… for example we put E Zen sleep vertically.. end up he will be in another position… like horizontally –_-" all of us was quite surprise with his milestone… don’t think baby can move that fast right… –_-“ let’s see when he will start turning himself… seriously… he’s strength is quite strong… when i hug him and lie on my chest i can always feel that he try to move his head up and change his head direction from left to right… isn’t that a bit too fast for a baby? 

Daphne Day 446
Two days back i started to train Daphne on how to tell us if she want to go toilet for poo poo or pee pee… i know this is not easy.. but still have to teach her… so i will be writing everything i face while training her on that.. hopefully she will really cooperate with us.. At first i just try to remove the napkin.. just let her wear a pants and walk around.. and i will check on the clock frequently… and will ask her if she want go for pee pee or not.. and will bring her to the toilet to try pee pee every now and then… of course not every time she will actually pee pee… there’s one time… she actually quite angry with something which i forgot what is that already… she shouted and cry… then the next thing is pee pee… she was quite surprise when she see the pee pee… then i tell her…

“see.. told you d… if you want to pee pee must tell mummy… now all wet wet d lor… come mummy help you wipe”

you should check out her expression when she see her pee pee… she was quite surprise when she see that… and curious.. but at the same time she was angry too… ahah… i think tonight i will continue with the training…. i know the initial stage will be very difficult… but no choice.. have to really train her on that… since she understand and know how to say a few words d… i think it is the right time to teach her on that d…

Hopefully i get to update my blog daily on all training and milestone on two little baby

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April 19, 2010 @ 12:00 am

Little Princess Daphne Day 438

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Today we bring Daphne to genting.. On the way we went to Restaurant Leung Ya Indah to have lunch… Daphne ate quite a lot of rice with bit of vegetable and tou fu.. After lunch we went all the way to genting..

On the way Daphne keep cry.. At first We tot she just being naughty… End up when I hug her up from the car seat.. OMG the car seat was sooo hot.. Now I know the real reason why she cry d… Once I hug her she straight away sleep… So I just keep hug her… Till when we reach the half way of the moutain to genting… Suddenly Daphne cry again… This time I really dunno the reason d… She keep cry then cough… Then suddenly she vomit out some white funny thing I tot is flame… Then slowly she vomit more and more then I know those are actually the rice she ate just now…

Then she keep crying… Till we have to stop our car aside… To calm her down… She seem very worry and not happy when we in the car… Is it possible that she feel uncomfortable with all the turnings? Or she feel dizzy?? How I wish I know what she wants… Daphne keep cry till a level I can’t take it.. Especially when she vomit out those food she ate… I actually cry out too… Really out of control… Till Brandon keep telling me “cherrie you must be strong” I know I must.. But how?? When I see Daphne vomit those food out seriously I didn’t know what to do…

Everything get better when we actually reach genting.. Daphne seem calm down a lot.. and she look tired too… But she only fall asleep around 7pm.. Cause it took us quite some time to actually check in our hotel… Phew

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April 12, 2010 @ 10:53 am

Little Princess Day 437 and Little Prince E Zen Day 38

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Today is the first day I have to take care of both baby together… Especially in the afternoon.. Brandon not around he went out to meet up with his friend… Luckily have my parent in law to help take care of E Zen while I feeding Daphne and try to put her into bed…

While Daphne try to fall asleep she always have a habit where she likes to turn around on the bed.. End up… Today first time ever she fall down from the bed… OMG… I try to grab het as usual when she try to turn but my hand sloped… And she fall down… “poom” and following by daphne’s crying voice… OMG… My heart ache when I see that… I straight hug her up an on the light to check on her see if she’s injured or not…

From outside she looks perfectly fine… Hopefully inside too… oMG… I’m sorry Daphne… I should have take care u more carefully… I feel real sorry… :(

As for EZen.. Today is the first day he came back to stay over night with us after I bring him over to let nanny take care… Kind of miss him.. Although I see him everyday… Ok.. I think is time to feed him again.. I better don’t talk to much…

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